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I am proud to be autistic, and if you are autistic I think it’s highly likely that deep down you feel like you have something to be proud of, but you have been treated like you should be ashamed of the way you are. That you have spent your life being misunderstood and treated like you don’t have anything to be proud of. You believe in logic, you believe in facts that speak for themselves and you believe that the way people have treated you is evidence that you should not be proud of the way you are. Deep down you feel that if someone saw you they would think you have something to be proud of. You’ve been told your whole life that there is something horribly wrong with you, and the countless times you have tried to find love and have only found misunderstanding and shame. Deep down you want to be loved for who you are, and you believe you deserve love but the way you have been treated tells you the opposite. You have been treated like you have a disease that needs to be cured, even though our people have changed the world in ways only we could.
Tried everything?
If you are autistic there’s a good chance that you have tried over and over and over and over and over and over and over again to people, and it would take ten pages of writing “and over and over and over” to reflect the reality of how hard you have tried. You feel cheated and misunderstood, and maybe you have given in to hatred and rage because you don’t believe another thousand pages of “and over” would change a thing.
You go to counseling and are misunderstood, you go to counseling and they don’t understand your thought process, don’t understand your issues, don’t understand why you feel the way you do. And if they don’t understand the real problems you face, they can’t help you with those problems because you know as well as I do that you can’t fix problems when you don’t even know what they really are
If you are like me, when something “clicks” with you everything changes.
I offer affordable life coaching skills, from a life coach who wants more than anything to make it better for you, to help you to find the love and acceptance that you have always deserved and seldom found, and to help you find people who deserve you not people who use you. I am affordable, because I want to help you and frankly, generosity is often a part of autism, it’s our way, in the same way honesty is our way. We believe in doing things for their own sake, we believe in letting facts speak for themselves. My goal is to help you make small changes in the way you do things that compound like interest in your life.
Invest in yourself by booking a consultation with me, let’s work together to make it better.
When it Clicks
Something you can see working
Autistic people want to know how things work, and when you can see how something works, you know what doesn’t work. You think logically and you are fair, you measure people’s character on their character traits not their demographics. You want to know the truth, not want what you believe to be true, and you want things to get better but everything you have tried doesn’t work. You are open hearted, you want to help people, but you are trapped inside yourself and don’t know how.
If this describes you, if I understand you, then I would like to offer you my services.
I believe that the key to fixing problems is understanding. A problem well stated is a problem half solved, and I understand why they treat us the way they do. I understand a lot about how they see us, and I understand that you want someone to be honest with you about what you’re doing and how you come across, instead of getting uncomfortable and distancing themselves from you. I understand that you need to see how it works, and understand that you need to see results to confirm if something works.